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The Lady
♥Zura is the name♥
♥22-Dec-1987♥
♥A Wife & A Mummy♥
Her Love Ones
♥Muhd Aniq Nufael♥
♥Born on 23/06/06♥
♥Son whom she loves dearly♥
♥Muhd Adam Firdaus♥
♥Blissfully married on 15/09/05♥
♥Hubby whom she is devoted to♥
Speak, don't bark.
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Friday, December 12, 2008 11:26 AM
Friends or BF?
Which one of these wud u choose? many times we'll be questioned abt diz n moz of e tyms, we cant even ans. well not dat ppl dun wana ans, juz dat i bliv we have to b careful of e ans we give. we neva noe, we myt end up hurtin either party.
Ive frens who prioritize deir frens more, also have frens who put deir BF on top of everytin. im fine wif both actuali coz to me, everyone of us has deir own reasons for doin wt dey do. u cant expect ppl to be lyk u. juz bcoz u prioritize ur frens, u cant expect ur frens to do e same. likewise if u r someone who put ur BF above everytin, u shuden dissed others who dun do e same. each & everyone has deir own reasons as to y dey put deir frens/BF 1st rather den e oder wae round.
Ok letz put it diz wae. for someone who prioritize frens den BF, y do u tink dey do so? mayb itz bcoz dey r someone who simply treasure frens/true frens/long frens & tink dat BF can b found anytym & anyware but true frens is simply hard to come by. n wat abt doz who prioritize deir BF? y do u tink dey do dat? do u tink dey reali wana ditched deir frens for deir BF? no. it myt b bcoz itz deir BF is controlling dem so no choice, dey have to stick to deir BF lyk a glue doh as tymz dey yearn to b wif deir frens as well.
All im tryin to sae is, we shuden b too quick to judge. we shud try to b in deir shoes & undastan deir situation before assumin. coz reali, no one has e ans except for ourself.
As for me, if eva questioned abt diz my ans wil b simple. i'll choose both. n i gues i shud b lucky coz even now afta marriage, i dun have a problem bein wif frens. simply said, ive a understandin hubby who allow me to spend tym wif frens as & wen i want to. but of coz, i have to b fair to him. derfore i'll usualy go out wif my frens only wen he's out wif his frens, or mayb wen he's werkin. weneva he's at hm, i'll make it a point to spend tym wif him so dat he wun fil neglected. dat wae, im bein fair to both my frens & hubby. =)
Take a moment to ponder abt diz & u'll noe which category u fall into. but rmb, no matter who u choose, itz ur own ryt. no one shud b tellin u e asn, not strangers, not ur frens, not even ur family. folow ur heart. =))
TGIF PPL!
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