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Friday, December 19, 2008 2:31 PM
Gerls beaten up by guys...
What is ur opinion on this? be it a witness or a victim urself, what have u got to sae? i noe this is quite a sensitive issue to talk abt, but i just have to voice it out. it's just gettin too much dun u tink so...
I tink almost half of my frens ever complained to me abt deir BF beatin dem up, sum so serious till e gerl had to b hospitalized. well of coz what do u xpect, gettin beaten up by a guy is no freakin joke lei! wenever any of my frens starts complainin to me, i'll just sae e same ting to everyone, leave ur BF. seriously, y r u stil stickin to someone who is beatin u up lyk it's deir hobby?!
But of coz, atlez 90% of dem stil clings on to deir BF. n e reason dey gave me, sayang. true la, u guyz myt be together for 2,3 yrs or even more. derfore if sumone were to tell u to leave ur BF juz lyk dat u definitely cant do so. i undastan. however ask urself this qn, how long more r u gona endure all diz shit?
When a guy start to beat his GF for e 1st, 2nd tym, trust me, it will bcum a habit. dey wun b able to change wif juz a snap of a finger. MAYB, juz mayb, dey wil change in tym to come. but when? do u wana end up marryin someone who lays his hand at u for e rest of ur life? what if u guys have a kid later on, do u want him to start beatin up ur kid as well?
I must sae im lucky coz ive never got beaten up by hubby before. he is someone who dun bliv in layin hands at a gerl, dat i respect him for. yes, ive ever got slapped by him, but dat was e 1st & last tym it happened. even up til now, no matter how rude i am, he wil never lay a finger on me. but as i told my closest GFs e oder dae, if i con't wif my cakap-suke-ati attitude, one fine dae for sure hubby gona beat me up. haha. =P
To all e victims out der, reali, i tink itz tym u take action. dun live in silence. if u dun help urself, den no one else can. a fren of mine recently left her BF of 3 yrs coz of this reason. n if she can do it, im sure oders can as well. reali, itz juz a matter or whether u wan to do it anot. dun talk abt sayang. if he reali luvs u, he wun even beat u up at e 1st place.
Im sure talkin sense here ryt... =)
TGIF PPL!
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