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The Lady
♥Zura is the name♥
♥22-Dec-1987♥
♥A Wife & A Mummy♥
Her Love Ones
♥Muhd Aniq Nufael♥
♥Born on 23/06/06♥
♥Son whom she loves dearly♥
♥Muhd Adam Firdaus♥
♥Blissfully married on 15/09/05♥
♥Hubby whom she is devoted to♥
Speak, don't bark.
Her Daily Reads
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Thursday, November 20, 2008 3:46 PM
Was browsing thru my multiply photo albums wen i saw diz pic. was taken on my weddin nyt by iLi iLiyana. miss dat gerl. aniwaes, lukin at diz pic i cant help but reminisce on my weddin 3 yrs ago.
It wazen anitin fancy wtsoever. juz a simple akad nikah at ROM followed by dinner at hubby's place. even doz invited were juz relatives & close frens.
I noe ppl were kinda surprised wen dey found out i was gettin married. afterall, i was onli 18 den. no doubt, it was sort of lyk a laz min preparation for us. everytin was finalized in juz 2 mths. now, im sure moz of u wana noe wt made us got married early ryt? stop wonderin, let me tel u e story. coz sumhw, i guez itz better ppl noe e truth rather den kip cumin up wif deir own tales. true?
Well, as u all myt noe, previously before marriage i was stayin wif my 1st sis, wif my parents & siblings of coz. n ya, as u noe, i was bein controlled in dat houz by u noe who. seriously, i wazen a bad gerl durin my teenage yrs. but dono y, im owaes seen as e black sheep among my siblings. mayb, itz bocz of my stay-out-all-nyt daes which even my brother never done before u c. yeah, dat was considered bad to dat guy. hw ah?
Rmb i eva mentioned in 1 of my post abt dat guy halau-ing me from his houz wen i didnt wana cont skulin? yeah, durin dat point of tym my parents was actuali in e midst of movin to my 2nd sis houz. n so i was supposed to follow but den my 2nd BIL didnt wana take me in coz he said i was rebellious (??) & said i wil create trouble while im der. well fyi, my 2nd BIL is a religious man thus he dun lyk it if i stay out at nyt & all. oh well, cant blame him for dat i guez.
N so my dad was in a dilemma durin dat point of tym. yela mane tak, menantu pertama halau anak bongsu die, menantu kedua plak tanak amek tgl. i knew he love me of coz, which father dozen? i stil remembered clearly dat 1 fine dae. he waited for me at e void deck after werk. we sat & talked. he told me he's sad of wat's happenin. n moz touchin part was, he said he dun blamed me for my behaviour. i was sad of coz hearin dat. knowin my dad back me up even doh i was kinda rude back den. dat was wen he asked if i wanted to get married. he knew den dat i was dating hubby for few yrs oredi. so yeah, out came dat qn. i was surprised of coz. who wuden? slalu anak tnye bapak nk kawen bleh tk, nie bapak tnye anak nk kawen tk. hehh
At first i told him, y not i juz get engaged 1st & stay in hubby's houz. but he refused. well he's very conservative type u c. he said better if i juz get married so dat he wun worry much for me coz he knew hubby cud take care of me. lukin at my dad face, i cud c how strez he was den. datz wen i talked to hubby & his family. discussed for quite a while n finally we both agreed. afterall, we knew we wanted to b wif each oder. we dun mind e fact dat we cant have a grand weddin coz of tym constraint however, at e very least we'll go thru e marriage cara islam, cara halal.
N so e preparation started. durin dat 2 mths me & hubby tried to save as much as we cud. of coz, i gotta thank his parents for helpin out. wifout dem, our marriage myt not have taken place. n oh, if u r wonderin, durin dat 2mhts i stayed at my 2nd sis houz. my dad talked to my 2nd BIL to let me stay der til i get married. of coz, he agreed wif a condition dat i cant stay out at nyt. i agreed for e sake of my dad of coz.
15th Sept came, n so we got married. as mentioned, it was a simple affair. but yeah, i cud c e happiness in my parents face. no more strez in dem.walau mcm mane pon, klau da anak bongsu ttp risau la kn. my dad wud called me almoz daily even after i got married. hehh. n as for my mum, my dad actuali once told me dat e dae after i got married, my mum was standin at e window. my dad asked what's she lukin at, n my mum said she was waitin for me to reached home juz lyk she owaes did. awww very swit kn. i cried ok wen i heard dat. hehh.
So der u go, my story. now dat u noe e reason y i got married early, i hope ppl wil stop creating tales bout me gettin married coz of u-noe-i-noe la kan. as ppl sae, tk tau tnye, tanak tnye diam, jgn mandai2 ok!
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